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I apologized to Joy-Joy for taking me sometime to respond. The past week was kinda hectic what with "Thanksgiving" holiday celebrated here in the US and my 2 college kids were back home for a few days. But anyways, here's my response to Joy-Joy's tag:

"It is not you that is mortal, but only your body. For that man whom your outward form reveals is not yourself; the spirit is the true self..." (Cicero)

- Exploring the Unexplained: The World's Greatest Marvels, Mysteries and Myths (Time Inc. Specials)

Surf's Up!!!

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This week I chose Jack Johnson as my music artist. I first heard his song "Flake" when one of our work-study students, Anish, would play this song repeatedly in his computer. I guess it worked cause I started liking his songs, although, there was a time there, that I would confuse John Mayer and Jack Johnson. It took me some time to tell the difference.

The songs I've chosen are:
  • Flake
  • Sitting, Waiting, Wishing
  • Better Together
  • Good People
  • Never Know
  • Breakdown
  • Bubble Toes
  • Rodeo Clowns

John Mayer - Music Artist for this week (Nov. 19 - Nov. 25, 2006)

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John Mayer just came out with his latest album called "Continuum". Check it out on his website with some free samplers of "Waiting on the World to Change", "I don't Trust Myself (With Loving You)" and "Belief".



For the meantime, enjoy some of his best hits here:
  • No Such Thing
  • Daughters
  • Bigger Than My Body
  • 83
  • Message In A Bottle
  • Your Body Is A Wonderland
  • 3 X 5

Nuttin' but... Stringz

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My husband and I were channel surfing the other night and we happen to catch Tavis Smiley's show on PBS. His guests that caught our attention were the Escobar brothers, Damien and Tourie, who were trained violinists from Julliard none the less. To say that these guys are good is an understatement.

According to their story, they use to panhandle inside New York's subway not only to make a quick buck but also to test the waters. It must have been a real test to be able to be notice especially since there are also a lot of different panhandlers in the area.

If you're able to listen to their album titled "Struggle From The Subway To The Charts", it will be an experience to remember and worth listening to.

Barong Tagalog

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My friend Susan Boado forwarded this to me and I thought that this is one piece of writing that should be spread and shared to our fellow kababayans, the history of our "Barong Tagalog". We would also like to thank the original writer of this article. Thank you for making us proud and giving us a clear understanding of our "heritage".




I think it's nice to know :

Nobody ever told me why the barong is the national dress of the Philippines . So, I did my research. I'm sure most of you know this, but just in case...

During the Spanish occupation of the Philippines (over 300 years from 1561-1889) the barong tagalog was required by the Spanish government for Filipinos (indios) to be worn at most times to show the difference between the rich and the poor. He said that the poor who serve the rich must always be in uniform.

Take their chauffeurs, maids, and employees as examples. They are in uniform to immediately distinguish them from the employers. When the Spaniards colonized the Filipinos, they had to make it abundantly clear who the boss was through the imposition of a dress code. Men were not allowed to tuck their shirttails in. That was the mark of his inferior status.

Second, the cloth material should be transparent so that he could not conceal any weapon that could be used against the masters. Third, as a precaution on thievery, pockets are not allowed on the shirt.

By the turn of the century a new middle class began to emerge among the Filipinos. These were known as the principalia. They have mastered Spanish laws and were able to obtain title to lands. They became successful in business and agriculture and sent their sons to be educated abroad. They were privileged to build their houses in the poblacion around the plaza near the seats of power.

Only a member of the principalia could be addressed by the title DON, and only they were allowed to vote. They had all the trappings of power and status, but for one undeniable fact: they still had to wear their shirttails out, if only to remind them that they were still Indios.

What the Spanish authorities did not smother out was the Filipino's will power and determination to psychologically conquer their colonial masters, through improvisation and reinterpretation. The Filipino's stylistic bongga (flashy dresser) was a reaction against the overt discrimination and insensitive oppression of the Spaniards.

For example, Filipinos were forbidden to use imported silk and fabrics for their Barong, so they ingeniously used pineapple leaves to weave the pinya jusi cloth of the barong, turning the outfit into such delicate material, of luminous silky rich mixture much finer than silk. And to add insult to injury, they hand-embroidered the front with such exquisite abandon: Calado and hand- work all over.

Palgrave, the ethnographer noted, "The capitan's shirt was the native barong, of fine and delicate fiber, embroidered and frilled; it was light and cool and not tucked in the trousers". (Corpuz, 74)

The Barong Tagalog gained its power, prestige, and status when President Quezon, the first Filipino president, declared it the National dress. The status of the lowly inferior Barong thus became another symbol of Filipinos' resistance to colonization.

After World War II, Philippine presidents began wearing the Barong Tagalog at their installation into office and on every formal state occasion. In contemporary times the Barong Tagalog is the power dress. As an abogado de campanilla, you cannot afford not to wear the Barong Tagalog
when arguing a case in Philippine courts.

Today, every visitor and foreign dignitary invited to a Malacanang Palace state function must, by necessity, and dictated by protocol, be dressed to the nines in a Barong Tagalog. The invitations specifically say come in "Barong" instead of the traditional "Coat and Tie". Thus, every one invited to dinner at the Presidential Palace and in many Filipino homes will
unknowingly and unwittingly have to experience directly, what it feels to have to wear his shirttails out, to suffer the indignity of having the material of his barong transparent so that he can not conceal any weapon; and horrors, to be accused directly of incipient thievery by having no pockets in his barong to put the silver. So, when El Senor Spanish Ambassador is invited
to a state dinner, you can say, "Ah, what sweet revenge!" (buti nga!!! )

Very interesting no? Hindi mo akalain ganoon ka complex ang storya ng ating barong tagalog. It makes you a little bit more proud of your self and your heritage while wearing it.
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*Barong Tagalog photo taken from BarongsRUs.

Buddy Mapping

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Hello all! got this new tool on my blog called "Buddy Mapping". Please take the time to add yourself and let me know where you're from. Thanks and I hope that you enjoy visiting my blog.

Jayden & Zachary (Halloween '06)

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Here are photos of Jayden (as Curious George) and Zachary (Napoleon Bonaparte?) in their Halloween costumes. This is Jayden's first halloween. Aren't they cute????



UP....Up.....up....

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Lovers of the English language might enjoy this...... How do non-natives ever learn all the nuances of English???

There is a two-letter word that perhaps has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that word is "UP."

It's easy to understand UP, meaning toward the sky or at the top of the list, but when we awaken in the morning, why do we wake UP?

At a meeting, why does a topic come UP?

Why do we speak UP and why are the officers UP for election and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report?

We call UP our friends and we use it to brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, we warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and some guys fix UP the old car.

At other times the little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses. To be dressed is one thing but to be dressed UP is special.

And this UP is confusing: A drain must be opened UP because it is stopped UP.

We open UP a store in the morning but we close it UP at night. We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP! To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look the word UP in the dictionary.

In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4 of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions. If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of the many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP, you may wind UP with a hundred or more. When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP. When the sun comes out we say it is clearing UP. When it rains, it wets UP the earth.When it doesn't rain for awhile, things dry UP.

One could go on & on, but I'll wrap it UP, for now my time is UP, so ....

Time to shut UP.....!

Oh... one more thing: What is the first thing you do in the morning & the last thing you do at night?

U. P.


Photo borrowed from GrateGatsby.com


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Thanks to Melissa for sending this to me.

Duke it out...

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I was at Borders Bookstore yesterday and as my usual practise after visiting the bargain section of the store, I veered myself towards the cds and dvds to see whats new in the store. Most of the time I'd listen to the latest music cds to come out and I think that this is one very cool marketing strategy that has proven a succes commercially so that potential buyers can listen to the music offerings in a cd before making the decision to purchase. Most of the time, I had to contain myself from dancing 'lest I cause a commotion and people thinking that I might have a seizure or something. I just had to contend with bobbing my head with a little shoulder movement. Wish I had the ability to move my head forward and backward, left side - right side the way that others can when they're "walking like an Egyptian". Youngest daughter, Dominique, can easily do such tricks.

Anyways, I listened for awhile to A.B. Quintanilla's new CD "A.B. Quintanilla III Presents From Kumbia Kings to Kumbia AllStarz".
The first selection which is aptly titled "intro" almost gave me a strong urge to dance... Thank God! I remembered that I had 2 single daughters whose future marriage potentials would be affected if I did such kind of behavior in public.... Ayoko namang tumandang dalaga ang mga anak ko, no?

I went to the Jazz section next and George Duke's new release (?) popped out. Hmmm! it's been awhile since I've listened to pareng George. So for this week, I've decided to feature him here. Two of my faves; Shine On and Sweet Baby are on top of the playlist but this doesn't lessen the value of the other songs.

George Duke playlist:
  • Shine On
  • Sweet Baby
  • Dukey Stick
  • Every Little Step I Take
  • Just For You
  • Lady
  • Searching My Mind
  • Starting Again
  • Movin' On
  • Life and Times
A lot of the songs here are mellow, nice music to listen to while you're in a sweet mood. So after dinner, light up the fireplace, serve your best wine, crank up the music and cuddle up with your significant other and talk sweet nothings..... If you don't have anything to say, let the "Duke" do the talking thru his music.

Karrol's Halloween Photos

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Karrol's glee club dressed up for Halloween '06 and this year she bought this Gretel costume but decided to represent herself as the Ricola (the cough drops) girl instead to match with the club's theme. She even had concocted a slogan, which for the life of me I couldn't remember (senior moment na naman!). But anyways, even if she didn't win the grand prize of a bag of candies for the "Best Costume" award, she benefitted from her Ricola cough drops (and also the other girls asked for some later on) coz she developed a sore throat after eating all those candies freely given and handed out in school. She knows very well that if she eats chocolates/candies more than she should, her tonsils would flare up. Kaya ayun for several days, she didn't have a voice. Mahirap talaga ang matakaw sa tsokwate!!!!

Dreya's new friends....

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During the Columbus Day weekend, Dominique brought home 3 of her new friends and schoolmates home for a long weekend stay. Since all of them were from out of state; Krista (California), Alexis (Arizona) and Amy (West Virginia), they were all excited to see Boston and do some winter clothes shopping.

We were excited and at the same time apprehensive since this is the first time we are hosting people to stay with us who are not family or relatives. However, my daughter reassurred us that her friends were kinda ok and are not too picky either with food so we made dishes for them at home that reflected our culture.

For their first night dinner at our house, my husband made pancit (Chinese noodles), my mother cooked adobo (well-known Filipino dish) and also fried Lumpiang Shanghai (Filipino Spring Rolls). I made Buko salad (young Coconut and fruit cocktail with heavy cream) for dessert. I believe that dinner was a success considering the way they ate and like my daughter said we didn't have any problem feeding them since they are not afraid to try anything.

The next few days my husband would make them healthy breakfast complete with blueberry pancakes, omelettes, mix fruits, french toasts, hot chocolate/or milk and fruit juices. Since most of them wake up later, food was more of brunch than breakfast. They also like the "leche flan" (custard) that my eldest daughter, Karrol, made. Other desserts that we got for them were the Filipino ice cream "Magnolia" (Ube and Mango flavors) paired with barquillos that they eat late at night while watching TV.

They also had the opportunity to go to the outlets in Kittery, Maine to do some shopping for winter stuff since they weren't able to find things they like here in Boston. Unfortunately, I missed the shopping since we all couldn't fit in our Jeep Liberty.

All in all, it was a nice group of friends that Dreya had because their personalities blended well with each other. During the time that they were here, sometimes while watching TV, they would also knit scarves, and talk about whatever young girls like to talk about.

By the way, on their first night here, Dreya also invited one of her close friends in highschool, Jessica for a sleepover and also to meet her other friends.

Barenaked Ladies (2)

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I wanted to add more songs to my playlist from BNL including Batjay's fave but unfortunately "Best Audio Codes" where I get my music from doesn't have Baby Seat. Anyway, I hope you enjoy the following selections:
  1. Too Little Too Late
  2. Never Do Anything
  3. Get In Line
  4. Second Best
  5. Shoebox
  6. The Old Apartment
  7. Take It Outside
  8. You Will Be Waiting
  9. Upside Down
  10. Thanks, That Was Fun

Dealing with Life Situations...

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Here's another message from Steve Goodier that I'd like to share with you all.

WORK IT OUT


"Anger blows out the lamp of the mind," said Robert Ingersoll.


It may be true! I heard a story about one woman who seemed to
have no reason behind her anger. The story goes like this:

A man read, in the want ads, of a sports car for sale. It had
only 3,000 miles. "Like new," the ad boasted. "Mint condition.
$75.00."

He laughed to himself, and he said, "There goes the newspaper,
making another mistake." But he decided to call the number anyway
and he asked the woman who answered about the car.

"Is it really brand new?"

"Yes," she replied.

"Three thousand miles?"

"Yes."

"The price?"

"Seventy-five dollars," she answered.

"Lady, what's wrong with it?" he asked.

"Nothing is wrong with it. You're the first to call. I supposed
nobody else believes the ad."

He decided to look at it. She let him take a test drive. The car
looked exquisite and ran perfectly. He just couldn't believe his
luck!

"The car is yours for $75.00," the woman said emphatically, "on
one condition. I want the money now and I want you to drive it
away so I never have to see it again."

He paid her and took the keys. "Please tell me, lady," he
persisted. "You could have sold this car for thirty thousand
dollars. What is going on?"

She told her story: "I bought this car for my husband on our
fortieth wedding anniversary. Two weeks later he ran off with
somebody else. Last week I got a card from him. They are in a
resort in Miami Beach, Florida. The card said, 'Need money, sell
car, send cash.' I did."

You may smile at her way of expressing anger. But what do you do when
you are angry?

Some people "act it out." They break something. Or they say something
they later regret. They strike back.

Other people "take it out." They kick the dog or scream at the kids.
They lash out at the next unlucky person they come across.

Still others "talk it out." They find someone who will listen. They
know they have to bring it up if they want to get it out. And after
they've talked it out they usually know what to do and generally feel
better.

ACT IT OUT and your actions will become a block to good
communication.

TAKE IT OUT and you cause more hurt and anger.

TALK IT OUT and you can GET IT OUT.

Once you GET IT OUT you can WORK IT OUT and your relationship will
work for you!



Steve Goodier

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Big hugs and lots of kisses to my daughter, Karrol, for re-designing my blogsite. She is responsible for making my blog look cool... If you want to check out her own blog, visit K-Dream Palace and her contributing articles at AATheory.